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#REALITY:  TWIST OF BETRAYAL

The lamentation is the fact that he/she cheated on you with your bestfriend thus you are quick to judge the action behind the betrayal, quick to tell every ear that cares to listen, quick to paste it on every social media platform, quick to tell family and friends that its over between the two of you and so quick to cast an everlasting hatred.

Truthfully, have you sat down to ask your self, what went wrong between you two? What factors could have lead to such acts? Is it really your partner’s fault or yours?

Think deeply and answer the following questions

Ø  Do you think you know your partner very well?

Ø  Do you know what makes your partner thick?

Ø  Do you know what makes your partner thin?

Ø  Do you know what makes your partner tick?

Ø  Can you look into your partners eyes to determine she/he is pretending to be happy because he/she doesn’t want to overwhelm you with worries?

Ø  Do you actually know his/her dreams i.e. who he/she really wonna be?

Ø  Are you creating enough memories with your partner that lingers in your absence?

Ø  Do you take time out to really talk i.e. have a heartfelt talk and your meeting isn’t all about sexual advances?

Ø  Do you really connect to the extent that when you don’t talk, you are actually talking with different body languages?

#FACT: being in a relationship is quite different from keeping a relationship. It is extremely easy to go into a relationship compared to having to nurture and maintain a relationship to a greater height called MARRIAGE. We can also say the same about marriage, having to get married is never the problem; the main issue is staying married.

#CASESTUDY: a young lady approached me to seek advice concerning her relationship and let me on the conversation that brought about her second thought concerning her relationship. The conversation below took place at an outing with her fiancé and his bestfriend.

Her fiance: my baby will be a year older on Saturday, what do I surprise her with?

Bestfriend: if I were you, I will get her a ride computerized with gadgets she needs for her work so she can work while mobile

Her fiance: (laughed) hell no; that’s not my baby’s taste, a trip to Bahamas and a nice cruise on the ship will do the magic

Of course she said she was surprised at the best friend’s words because that’s exactly what she will choose to have as a gift and not one hell of a trip to Bahamas. She later got to know that the bestfriend normally tells her guy what to get for her, places to take her and what she likes eating through his observation .she is letting go of the relationship because she feels she is going out with the bestfriend through her fiance.

Ain’t that scary? If such a lady should smitten up to the bestfriend, WHO IS TO BLAME?

TO BE CONTINUED